one of the things that i find most frustrating is finding clothes that are both comfortable and fashionable. i love clothes -- just ask my boyfriend and our overflowing closet! -- and i used to love shopping for them.... until i got sick. now shopping for them is hours upon hours of frustration. nothing seems to fit right anymore, and because of the pain and bloating in my body, it's so hard to tell from day to day what size i am going to be, what body part is going to hurt and can't be pushed against that day, and i never know what size i should buy. there are days that i can wear my skinny jeans in the morning, and by the evening my stomach is so distended from the inflammation in my bladder and belly that nothing else fits but drawstring sweatpants! UGH!! i know i am not the only one who has this problem (and who is so frustrated and upset by it), so i thought that i would start something new on my blog.
every friday, i am going to have fashion friday, where i showcase a type of clothing that i have found is especially friendly for those of us with chronic illnesses. i have tried so many different styles of clothing over the years (with many hits and misses) that i want to be able to share the information with you all so that you don't have to waste the time that i did, too! this way you can find the information right here, all compiled for you so you don't have to go searching on your own. i will include many different price points and a variety of stores so that hopefully i cover all ends of the spectrum. and hey, even if you don't have a chronic illness, i hope you enjoy the fashion finds as well!
for this first fashion friday, i am going to be covering a new trend for the spring and summer that i was very happy to see come back: shorts with elastic waistbands! some stores are calling them "soft shorts" this year, but either way i am thrilled they are back! they are super comfy for us without looking like we are wearing sweatpants (which they kind of are, but who is gonna tell?! not me!). combining them with a loose tank or tee, a sandal and a chunky necklace, and we can fly out the door looking great (even if we don't feel like it inside). it's important to feel somewhat put together on the outside, even if we aren't feeling too great inside, because it boosts our spirits a bit and gives us just enough of an attitude change that we feel like we can face more than we could if we were in our sweats. that's why i think it's important to try to put on "real" clothes when we leave the house, and that's where fashion friday comes in. this way, we can wear regular clothes without stuffing ourselves into something that is uncomfortable and makes us feel worse. so without further blabbing from me, checking out these awesome shorts. :)
